So i find that if you actually have a life outside of this site, and don't post for a few days you lose all of your value. I dropped off completely...went from being in the top 20 to not even listed. If I truly cared about such things I might even be upset, but I guess the value that the people that see me in my day to day life is just of more importance to me!

  It is all such a bit of perpsective for me.

Isn't it just nice to know that we matter to those around us...that we are of some value, loved, cared for, all of it. As humans we thrive of the love of others, our family, friends and significant others give us that love that feeds us and makes us stronger. Some us add to it by the people and friends we have made on here. So to all my shoutpost friends that I have dropped away from in my busy past weeks...thanks!

You guys rock!