So, a friend of mine recently had his girlfriend break up with him. She then went and "dated" a friend of his. Now isn't there some unwritten rule in both sexes that you don't do this? She seemed to be quite confused as to why everyone in our circle of friends was mad at her. O.K. I know we are all in our 30's now and we should (SHOULD) be more mature, but feelings are feelings. When they get hurt you react a certain way. It is hard to not be upset when you see someone that you cared about, whom just said they did not want to be with you....with another person. Worse to have that person be someone you know. I am friends with all involved, tried really hard not to take sides, however you know this NEVER works!!! You are always closer with one than the other. For me in this case it was the guy that got broken up with. I just think better communication and care of feelings could have been used for all involved. Now I am only speaking to the guys, not the girl, her choice...she choose to make herself not be a friend. I am O.K. with it though, if she came back and said she could see where she went wrong and made some effort to apologize. I don't see though that she is aware at all of it.

Just needed to vent a little to people not invloved in it all.

thanks guys...